AD LO YADAH -- "UNTIL YOU CAN'T TELL THE DIFFERENCE"
by Rabbi Niles E. Goldstein
The joyous holiday of Purim starts on Saturday night, a tale rife with intrigue, power struggles, sex, and violence. Rabbinic tradition tells us that we should celebrate the ultimate Jewish triumph over Haman and his homicidal plans, in part, by imbibing in drink so much that we "can't tell the difference" (ad lo yadah) between the Jewish leader, Mordechai, and the wicked Haman. (We do a pretty good job at our shul of following that teaching.)
What the rabbis don't remind us about is that at the end of the book of Esther, the Jews go out in mobs and, in acts of revenge, massacre thousands of Persians in what are essentially Jewish-led pogroms. Was every single one of those victims a member of Haman's crew? How many innocent men, women, and perhaps even children lost their lives? There is a thin line between justice and vengeance, between lashing out at oppressors in unilateral, violent ways and truly striving to bring about harmony and a just world. The wicked should be punished and contained. But perhaps the rabbis were wrong. Maybe what is needed is not a frenzy of emotion, but level-headed, thoughtful deliberation about our options. That is what may truly separate the good from the evil.